1) You‘ve been dating your partner for a while. They see you in the hallway talking to your study partner, the cute kid from science class. Later your partner demands to know why you were talking to them and tells you that you need to switch partners. This is.... a) Being possessive b) Betrayal c) Volatility 2) You’ve been dating your partner for a few weeks. They tell you that they want to be exclusive. When you say that you’re not sure if you’re ready for that, they say that they love you and ask, “Don’t you love me?” This is.... a) Isolation b) Intensity/Love Bombing c) Belittling 3) You’ve been applying to colleges and are looking forward to going to a university out of state. Your partner will be staying at the local university. Your SATs are tomorrow, and you need to do well on them. You want to stay home and study, but your partner says they had a bad day and you need to go out with them to cheer them up. You agree but say you need to be home early to study. After dinner, whenever you say you’re going home, your partner says they really need you to stay a little longer. You end up getting home only a few hours before you need to go to take the SATs and have to take them with no sleep.This is.... a) Guilting b) Betrayal c) Volatility 4) Your best friend is having a party this weekend. You tell your partner that you would like to go. They say you spend too much time with your friend and not enough time with them. They tell you they love you so much and want to spend all their time with you. They say you can’t go to the party – in fact they don’t want you to hang out with your friends at all so they can have more time with you. This is.... a) Isolation b) Intensity/Love Bombing c) Volatility 5) Your partner tells you that they want to share all your passwords (phone, snapchat etc.) and read your texts. They say they love you and want the two of you to be like one. They want to make sure that no one is hurting you or dissing you. a) Isolation b) Intensity/Love Bombing c) Possessiveness 6) You and your partner are talking, and you disclose the fact that you were in the talking stage with a classmate when you were younger. You say that you regret it, that you were too young, and that you felt pressured. You ask that they not share it with anyone else. You later discover that your partner posted that you hooked up with the other classmate, laughing about it and calling you “loose.” This is.... a) Intensity/Love Bombing b) Guilting c) Betrayal 7) You are super excited about the new outfit that you bought. You show it to your partner, and they say loudly that it makes you look ugly, and it highlights your big hips. This is.... a) Guilting b) Belittling c) Volatility

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