1) True or False: It is always best to react to a conflict right away, especially when you still feel angry! a) True b) False 2) True or False: Conflict is not a normal part of life; only people who have bad luck, are fussy, or make bad decisions have to deal with conflict. a) True b) False 3) True or False: Conflicts are almost always "bad" and should be avoided. a) True b) False 4) True or False: A conflict can happen between two or more people. A conflict can also happen inside of a person, too. a) True b) False 5) True or False: How someone responds to a disagreement or problem can either make the conflict worse, or help everyone to feel that they matter.  a) True b) False 6) What is a good example of an "I-Message"? a) "I don't really care if you are mad." b) "I think that you should not be friends with her anymore." c) "I felt hurt when you ignored me." 7) What is a "win-win" solution? a) It means that you come up with a solution where everyone "wins" and feels heard. b) It means that you are a double winner. c) You agree to lose the game, but only after you get to flick your teammate in the arm. 8) What is an "I-Message"? a) Any statement that you say with an "I" at the beginning of your sentence.  b) It is when you say how you feel, what you hope for, and how you want to be treated. c) This is where you use an I-phone to send a message. 9) What is an example of a "win-win" solution? a) Ignore the person and walk away b) Hit the person c) Taking turns with the small playground d) Telling an adult 10) Think about your latest argument, pick which strategy you could have used to solve the problem. a) Calm yourself down first b) Apologize c) Listen with an open heart d) All of the answers could help 11) Which of the following is NOT a healthy way to deal with a conflict: a) Use an "I-Message" b) Ask for help. c) Do whatever it takes to prove you are right. 12) Which of the following are healthy ways to deal with a conflict: a) Apologize if you make a mistake. b) Yell at the other person. c) Flip a coin, or use rock-paper scissors d) Both A & C 13) True or false: You should use a strong and respectful voice to say that you are not okay with something.  a) True b) False 14) When should you ask for help? a) After you have tried 2 or 3 resolution strategies.  b) If you feel unsafe. c) You should never ask for help! d) Both A & B. 15) What does it mean to listen with an open heart? a) Listen to others without interrupting. b) Judge them silently, but listen to what they are saying. c) This means you listen while having heart surgery. 16) Which of the following is a good way to handle a conflict? a) Push the person back if they pushed you.  b) Play rock-paper-scissors to decide which game to play.  c) Scream loudly. 17) Which of the following is true about the word conflict? a) It can be a disagreement, or a problem. b) It can happen when people need or expect different things. c) A conflict can be good or a bad thing. d) All of the answers are right. 18) Which of the following is NOT a good way to calm yourself down after you have had a conflict? a) Talking to your friends. b) Taking a walk around the playground. c) Punching the wall. d) Sketching things out in a notebook. 19) True or False: You should always say yes to something to avoid a conflict. a) True b) False 20) True or False: Ignoring or walking away is a conflict resolution strategy. a) True b) False 21) Sharing, Apologizing, and using an "I-Message" are all examples of what? a) Things you will never do. b) Admitting defeat. c) Making poor choices. d) Conflict Resolution Strategies. 22) When someone doesn't want to play with you, what can you do to resolve the conflict? a) Force them to be your friend. b) Play with someone else. c) Tell everyone what a horrible person they are. d) Throw wood chips at them. 23) True or False: If someone disagrees with you, you should immediately walk away.  a) True b) False 24) True or False: It is okay to disagree with someone. a) True b) False 25) True or False: Anger makes conflicts harder to resolve. a) True b) False

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